Korene's Blog Estate Planning: The Need to Know January 29th, 2010 6:12 PM Death is seldom a topic we want to deal with.  Death and dying are subjects we seldom talk about because most of us do not want to think of telling our family members, friends, or those we work closely with goodbye.  If we ignore the legal, business, and financial sides of death or dying, we hope it will not happen until we are much older or more ready to deal with it.  As baby boomers get older, so do their parents. Yet many adult children know little about their parents' assets. In fact, only 30 percent of adult children have an ongoing dialog with their parents about financial issues, according to a survey by the American Association of Retired Persons (AARP). We have all heard stories of families torn apart by bickering over assets. Here's a checklist to help avoid that nightmare. Despite the lack of discussion, it's likely that at some point, your parents' affairs will become your responsibility.   Be prepared because your siblings' or even your adult children's affairs will become your responsibility. Even if everyone in your family gets along, tensions and unforeseen misunderstandings can arise if you don't have the necessary information. In addition, lengthy legal processes await those without a well thought-out estate plan. The following checklist provides the documents a family needs to know about:  Stock, bond, mutual fund and bank accounts, location and names on the accounts.  Insurance policies, including health, life, disability and long-term care  Retirement accounts, including IRAs, 401(k) plans, pension funds and Social Security benefits.  Property deeds.  A complete list of assets, including things like heirloom china and jewelry.  Safe deposit boxes and the location of the keys.  The names of accountants, financial advisers, lawyers and brokers. In addition, there are three basic documents you should be able to easily locate:  A Will outlining how assets are to be divided, who will serve as executor, trustee or guardian, and how taxes are to be paid.  A Durable Power of Attorney to act on your parents' behalf if they become incapacitated for any reason.  A Living Will (or a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care) to make health-care decisions and describe medical procedures that should be used to prolong life. Even with all the right documents, estate planning isn't a do-it-yourself project. Consult your financial adviser or lawyer to guarantee that your family's intentions become reality. Maneuvering Around A Tricky Topic Money, death and long-term incapacitation aren't subjects anyone likes to talk about - particularly with their parents. So here are five helpful approaches for opening the conversation: Emergency approach. Simply ask your parents where they keep important documents, in case of an emergency. Even if you don't know what's in their legal and financial papers, you should know where to find them. Advice approach. Tell your parents that you're thinking about updating your own financial planning documents and you'd like some advice. By sharing the information, they may feel more comfortable talking to you about their own plans. Independent approach. Perhaps you're considering buying some long-term care insurance, either independently or through your company. These policies often cover other family members. Ask your parents if they're interested. Joan Rivers approach. Can we talk? If you have a good relationship with your parents, the direct approach may be the best. Another way is to give them a written list of questions and let them respond. Don't be surprised if you don't like everything you hear. You may find out that a sibling with some problems gets a larger portion of the estate. Or, if you're part of a family business, one relative is chosen as a successor. But even if the discussion is difficult, it's essential to your family's well being in the long run. Compromise approach. If nothing works, it may be time to ask your parents to visit an estate planning expert on their own. It may be easier to talk about finances and medical decisions with a professional, rather than a family member. If this approach succeeds, you'll know your parents have taken care of their affairs. Being prepared and informed is not morbid or intrusive.  It is intelligent, thoughtful, and necessary.  Posted by Korene Clopine-Seaman on January 29th, 2010 6:12 PMPost a Comment (0) Subscribe to this blog * Name: * Email Address: URL: Comment:         Type the characters you see in this picture, click "Submit" when finished.   This helps us prevent automated programs from posting comments and sending spam. * Name: * Email Address: Address: City: State: Zip:   This helps us prevent automated programs from creating bogus contacts and adding them to your contacts database.

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