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Following Your Dream or Living a Vision

January 14th, 2010 11:40 AM by Korene L Clopine-Seaman

Following Your Dream or Living a Vision

When it comes to following a dream or living a vision, there are two types of people in this world: those who talk about it, and those who do it.

The person who talks about it do just that: they dream, they plan, and they scheme. They don’t want to move forward until they have every little detail covered, a perfect plan in place, and a guarantee of success without bumps.

They want all their bases covered.

The problem? The problem is that they never actually do anything. They spend so much time planning that they eventually lose the drive to move forward at all.

After all, planning is safe, right? This is why ‘planning’ is so popular with so many people. When people talk and plan, it means they don’t have to take the risk of action.

In January, 2009 I was spending a major part of my day planning – but at the end of the day, I always felt like the day had just flown by, with nothing meaningful to show for it except a “list”.

… ever felt that way?

The day I stopped planning in early May and jumped into action is when everything started to change. I went from an also ran loan originator to a loan originator who is going moving to triumph – all within 6 months of that change.

I learned that those who are actually living their dreams, know that the only way to get where they want to go is to take a small step, every day, towards their goal.

They know it doesn’t matter if that step is wrong…and they know that they’re probably going to stumble and fall a bit along the way. Lord knows I stumbled and fallen :-)

But, they also know that the stumbles and falls have the best lessons, if they Keep Moving Forward.

So here’s my question: Are you TALKING about following your dream, or are you actually taking small actions every day to start living it?

Now, I know it sounds hard to take action every day to work on your dream. We’re all pressed for time, and squeezing one more thing or one more costs into a busy schedule can seem impossible.

But here’s an important point: it doesn’t have to be a big step.

Here’s an example: many people long to reorganize their garage or dream of writing a book. But, they start thinking about how hard it’s going to be to clean that garage or to write a whole book. And they think “Man, I’ll never be able to do that”. So they might spend more time planning it out.

Don’t get me wrong, planning is good. But you know what happens?  Their work and the idea gets pushed to the backburner.

The point here is that by doing just one thing, every single day, you can start a snowball of incredible proportions. It starts with a single snowflake, but by the time it gets rolling there’s no telling how big it’ll end up.

Make it a point to do something today to work on your dream. Remember, it doesn’t have to be big. Don’t underestimate the Power of Small: those little things add up.

Imagine for a moment that a new you, totally confident and ready to rock the world, is emerging for this decade. You are completely working in your strengths, and you live according to your personal blueprint.

You will have more happiness, have more joy and fulfillment in your work and are making a huge impact on the world, and you will find you are more successful in your life, family, work, and opportunities will open up.

I learned that those who are actually living their dreams, know that the only way to get where they want to go is to take a small step, every day, towards their goal.

There has never been a better time in all of human history to be alive than today. There are more opportunities for you to accomplish more things, in more different fields, engaging in more different activities, than have ever existed before.

Resolve today to make the coming year the very best year of your life. Resolve today to draw a line under your past and to focus very clearly on your future. Resolve today that you are going to set goals, make plans, take actions and achieve more in the coming year than perhaps you have ever accomplished in any one single year before.

One of the great rules for success is this: “It doesn’t matter where you’re coming from; all that really matters is where you’re going!”

No matter what you have done or accomplished in the past, “that was then and this is now.”  The very best days, weeks, months and years of your life lie ahead. The most exciting accomplishments and the greatest achievements are still to come. As Shakespeare said, “The past is merely a prelude.”

As it happens, everyone has plans or goals. But some people seem to accomplish their goals far more systematically and with greater assurance than others. Why is this? The answer is simple. People who accomplish goals at a higher rate than the average are people who use a systematic, proven method of goal setting AND goal attainment.

Perhaps the three most important qualities of success are focus, concentration, and action.

Focus (Planning) means knowing exactly what it is you want and how to accomplish or achieve your dream.

Concentration means having the discipline to concentrate single-mindedly on the one thing, the most important thing, until it is complete.

Action means having the drive and determination to put the focus or plan into daily positive moving forward activity.

If you have these qualities, and these three qualities are learned through practice, you can accomplish virtually anything. There are no limits on your future if you can focus, concentrate, and put into action or moving forward activity every hour of every single day.

The starting point of setting goals for the coming year is for you to project forward and think back. Practice what we call “Back from the Future” thinking. Project forward to the end of the next twelve months and ask yourself, “If everything happens perfectly, what will it look like?”

The one quality of men and women who become leaders in their own lives and societies, throughout all of history is the quality of vision. They have the ability to visualize. They can see the future well in advance of it becoming a reality. They can then see the steps that they will need to take to get from where they are to where they want to go.

So if your next twelve months were ideal, in every respect, what would happen or, what would have happened, at the end of that twelve month period?

You need to set goals that are multi-dimensional. You need to set goals for every part of your life so that you function like a well-oiled machine, like a balanced wheel that goes around smoothly in every respect. You need goals for your health, for your career, for your finances, for your relationships, for your personal and professional development, for your community and for your spiritual growth. Nothing happens by accident. Everything happens for a reason. And you are the “primary creative force” in your own life. You are the reason. Things are happening in your life because you make them happen, not because you sit around and wait for them to happen.

Here is the basic seven-step model of goal setting. You can use this like breathing in and breathing out on a regular basis to accelerate your attainment of any goal you can imagine for yourself.

Step number one is for you to decide exactly what you want. This immediately moves you into a separate category of people because most people have no idea of what they really want. Clarity is the most important single quality of goal-setting and perhaps the most important single quality of success. Decide exactly what you want in each area of your life. Instead of fuzzy goals like more money, better health and happiness, be specific about exactly how much more money you want to earn in a specific period of time and combine that with exactly what level of health and fitness you desire.

Most people are unconsciously preoccupied with the fear of failure. It is the greatest single obstacle to success in adult life. And the fear of failure can work on you unconsciously by blocking you from setting clear specific goals. Why? Well, if you don’t set clear, specific goals, then you can’t fail to achieve them. So your subconscious mind is actually protecting you by helping you to avoid failure.
You must resist and overcome this tendency by having the courage to be bold and specific about exactly what you want. This is step number one.

Step number two is for you to write it down. Only three percent of living Americans, or adults anywhere for that matter, have written goals. Everyone else that thinks about a written goal and plans to write them down, someday. But they never get around to it. Most people spend more time making a list of groceries before they go shopping or planning a vacation than they do in planning their lives. But again, this is not for you. Success begins with a pad of paper, a pen and a few minutes of your time. One of the most important keys to success is to “think on paper.”

All successful people “think on paper.” And here are two important points. If you cannot write it down clearly and specifically on a piece of paper, then it means that you are not really clear about it yourself. Perhaps you don’t even want it. What is worse, it may be that you are afraid that you may not attain it. Nonetheless, a goal that is written down is merely a fantasy or a wish. A goal that is clearly written and described on a piece of paper takes on a power of its own, it is now something concrete that you can touch and feel and work with.

The second principle of writing goals down is that something miraculous happens between the head and the hand. When you actually write a goal down, it is as if you are programming it into your subconscious mind and activating a whole series of mental powers that will enable you to accomplish more than you ever dreamed of. By writing it down you intensify your desire for the goal and you increase your belief that the goal is possible. You begin to expect to achieve the goal and you start to attract people and circumstances into your life that are consistent with the attainment of the goal. Writing your goal down is one of the most amazing of all goal-setting skills and it is a key to your success.

The third step is for you to set a deadline. If it is a large goal, set a series of sub-deadlines. A deadline acts as a “forcing system” on your subconscious mind and begins to move you toward your goal rapidly while it moves your goal toward you.
Sometimes people ask me, “What if I set a goal and I don’t achieve it by the deadline?” The answer is simple. Set another deadline. Remember, a deadline is a guess-timate of when you will achieve it. Sometimes you will achieve your goal well in advance of your deadline. Sometimes goals will take much longer than you expect. But you must have a target time before you set off.

It is like making a reservation at a restaurant. You may be five minutes early or five minutes late, but you always have a specific time for which your dinner is reserved.

The fourth step is for you to make a list of everything you could possibly think of that you will have to do to achieve your goal. The more comprehensive your list, the more motivated you will become, the more intense will be your desire and the more you will believe it possible.

One of the things that hold people back is even if they get to the point of a written goal; they do not take the time to lay out a list of all the little things they will have to do to get there. And with additional experience, you will add new items to your list until it finally becomes complete.

The fifth step of goal setting is for you to take your list and organize it into a plan. A plan is really quite simple. It is a list organized by priority and importance. You decide what you will do first and what you will do later. You decide what is more important and what is less important. And most of all, you decide upon the one thing that is more important than anything else that you can do immediately to begin moving more rapidly towards your goal.

Step number six is for you to “take action!” This is the big killer for most people. They are procrastinators. They have great ideas combined with great hopes and dreams. They may even get to the point of writing down their goals. But when it comes to taking action, they always have a reason or excuse to procrastinate to put it off until a later time. However, as the Bible says, “Faith without deeds is dead.”

It is when you launch toward your goal that you begin to feel the desire and power that goes along with goal setting. And once you have launched toward your goal, it is much easier for you to continue moving in that direction.

Step number seven is for you to do something every day to move you toward your major goal. Never let a day go by without you engaging in some action that helps you move another step in the direction of what you really, really want in life.

Remember, you can’t hit a target that you can’t see. And if you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there. The simple seven step act of deciding exactly what you want, writing it down, setting a deadline, making a list, organizing the list into a plan, taking action on the most important item on your list and then doing something every day towards your goal will change your life and your future in ways that you cannot even dream of today.

May I suggest you help your friends and family by recommending them to me and my website to your friends and family whether they are looking to buy, refinance, have debt, want to be financially responsible, or want to build a sound financial base?


I thank you and they will too!

To Your Success!

Korene Clopine-Seaman, CMPS, CMA 
Senior Mortgage Advisor
Pacific Coast Mortgage, Inc
6991 E. Camelback Rd, Suite C-250
Scottsdale, AZ 85251
#BK 0905081
Direct Phone: 623-340-0934
Direct Fax: 623-218-1807
website: www.klcsloanteam.com

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Posted by Korene L Clopine-Seaman on January 14th, 2010 11:40 AM